Why you feel stuck and directionless
You think you know what you want.
More money. More freedom. A better body. A thriving business.
But when you sit down to do the work, you hesitate. You procrastinate. You lack clarity. And deep down, you’re not even sure if what you’re chasing is your dream—or just what society told you to want.
The problem isn’t a lack of motivation. The problem is you’re trying to build a life without knowing what truly fulfils you.
The illusion of wanting more
Most people don’t actually want what they think they do.
- They chase success but end up feeling empty.
- They pursue goals that impress others, not ones that align with their soul.
- They focus on external rewards while ignoring what actually brings them joy.
This is why so many high achievers feel lost after hitting their goals—because they were climbing a ladder that was never theirs to begin with.
Get clear on your true desires
1. Define what enough looks like
If you don’t define “enough,” you’ll always feel like you’re behind.
- How much money do you actually need to live the life you want?
- What kind of work feels fulfilling—not just impressive?
- What does success feel like to you, beyond numbers and titles?
Clarity eliminates the need to prove yourself to others.
2. Separate your desires from society’s expectations
Your path isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s.
- Do you actually want that dream house, or does it just look good on Instagram?
- Do you crave a six-figure salary, or do you just want financial peace?
- Are you building a business because it excites you, or because you think you should?
Detach from external noise. Tune into what you actually want.
3. Align your actions with your authentic self
Once you’re clear on what truly matters, build your life around it.
- Stop chasing things that don’t align with your core values.
- Let go of outdated goals that no longer inspire you.
- Design a life that energizes you—not one that just looks good on paper.
True success isn’t about having more. It’s about having what actually matters to you.
Final thought
Most people spend their lives chasing a version of success they never questioned.
Get clear. Get intentional. Define your version of a fulfilling life—and start building it now.
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The Untethered Soul by Michael Alan Singer
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